Saturday, May 19, 2007
Ooooh, it's a lady.
Today, he did it again at a cafe while Phuong was shopping for some jeans. I went to the cafe because the stores are really tiny and there was another 20 something girl and Michael is just sitting there looking at her with a big grin on his face. Then he did it again on the bus. Usually he looks at people with a "who the heck are you" expression on his face, but he seems to have found a soft spot for young ladies.
This morning he also had his second get hurt and cry a bit later moment. He was trying to get something on our wood kitchen table or maybe eat the table who knows, but he accelerated towards the table a little too quickly and mashed his upper lip into it. He looked around for a minute and then started bawling. Phuong hugged him, he realized everything was fine and immediately resumed reaching for whatever it was he was trying to get earlier.
Friday, May 18, 2007
Today, Michael went shopping on rue de Rennes and then decided that enough was enough and took a nap. Mom and dad enjoyed some sweet beverages at a cafe while he did so. Then, Michael found out that Le Bon Marche wasn't where he thought it was so we headed home early, which ended up being right on time.
Michael surprisingly was in the mood for his greenbeans for dinner and ate them quite happily. He must be tired of yogurt and fruit as part of his meals too since he wasn't keen on eating them even though I fed him those first.
Michael still won't take the bottle. I have been trying again for the last 3 days and no luck. We tried the sippy cup, but he just flings the formula around. Today, he got some in his eye and i had to flush his eyes out a bit first by making him cry and then by pouring a bit of water onto his eyelid while his eyes were closed. I don't think he's big enough for those eye flushing things you see in the chem labs.
Really need to get him to formula though because I think my milk supply is diminishing despite my fenugreek efforts and Michael is getting frustrated. :o( Need a solution!!
Love,
P
Then, my parents came to town and stayed for 2.5 weeks!

Scott popped over from Rome where he was presenting a poster at a conference! It was great to have him in Paris especially since my parents were here too so they could take care of Michael and we could go out together! Scott's itinerary for Paris was: "Go to Paris. See Paris. Leave Paris." We went to a couple of cafes together and even to a scottish bar where a scottish band was having a 'jam session." I swear, I thought the riverdance people were going to come out next. And the smoke was so bad in the bar, you could have swam through it. Brian's got some funny pics of them at the Catacombs that he might post later if Blogger doesn't eat his blogs again! ;0)
Thursday, May 17, 2007
Today, Brian and I watched in amazement as we propped Michael up in the recliner and he just sat up (away from the back of the recliner). Then, he reached over for his teething ring and instead of falling over like he usually does, he brought himself back up to center and sat again. WOW.
This was immediately followed by him deciding he wanted to lean somewhere else and going head-first into the cushy arm of the recliner. Nice boy. At which point, he felt it was sufficient to use the cushy arm to hold his head up so he could chew on his teething ring. He utilizes his resources quite well.
Lately, he plays this game with us where he looks at us and goes "Pppppttthhhhhssaaa" and spits everywhere. This usually occurs while he is laying on his back on his changing pad and results in spit more so on his face than anywhere else. We echo in return and this continues between the caveboy and us for at least one minute. I usually have to mop up his face afterwards.
Yesterday, I put a spoonful of carrots in his mouth RIGHT before he sneezed. It gave me a good excuse to wash my clothes again.
When michael does not want to eat something, he mashes his lips together and purses them and I swear it looks like his lips disappear. When you look closely, his lips make a very thin line and is no longer than half an inch. It is amazing.
Today, Michael had lunch with us at an Italian cafe near our house. Then, we went to look at jeans for Mom that might actually fit since she is shrinking despite eating ravenously thanks to Grandma and Grandpa. He checked out Bricorama (hardware store) and then spent the rest of the day at home playing around.
Love,
P
Monday, May 14, 2007
Yesterday, Michael had lunch at a cafe and watched Mommy choke on a piece of lamb that she ate that was too big for her. Dad almost had to heimlich (sp?) Mommy, but good thing a good bang on the back got that piece of meat out. Then, Michael took a nap as we went to Montparnasse to buy a Navigo only to find that the fact that our bank still has not spelled our name correctly or have the right address.
Then, Michael went in the cold and rain to the Marais area, only to turn back around and go home. Not too fun for him but he took a nap on dad, which he LOVES.
Today, just more playing at home. We are trying to get naps/mealtimes/food intake back on schedule. I will post just some random information in case you are interested.
Michael's Meal Plan
(50g = ~1.75-2 ounces)
Breakfast: Breastmilk, rice cereal with 2-3 ounces of formula mixed in. Occasional fruit.
Lunch: Breastmilk, 50g fruit, 50g vegetable, 0.5 ounces of formula (to supplement)
Afternoon: Breastmilk (if he takes it), 50g fruit, 50g vegetable, 30-40g yogurt, 0.5 ounces formula
Nighttime: Breastmilk
For Michael, I have to catch him when he is a bit sleepy for him to nurse. Otherwise, he is just crazy and bouncy and will not eat. That is one reason I have started to add in formula, just in case. He won't take the bottle, so I give him extra formula on a spoon or mixed in with rice cereal that is imported from U.S.A! I am looking for a sippy cup here but it is hard to find!
Foods that Michael Eats and His Opinion.
Fruits
- Pears - ADORES them
- Apples - Indifferent. Prefers homemade puree of apples
- Bananas - Started out liking them. Now doesn't really care for them.
Vegetables
- Pumpkin - LOVES them
- Carrots - Indifferent. Started out hating it, but is ok now.
- Sweet Potatoes - Indifferent.
Others
- Rice cereal with formula - Loves this
- Yogurt - Loves this too
Next up:
Green Beans
Peas
White Potatoes
Prunes (mixed in with Apples)
Peaches
White Potatoes with leeks
Meats
THis will take like A MONTH to get to! Then we go onto more chunkier things!
Love,
P
Friday, May 11, 2007
Thursday, May 10, 2007
Crawling
- The family still lives on the 3rd floor of this chateau. You could see recent family pictures in their exhibit rooms.
- A family tree which dated all the way back to 1400 with the most recent member being born the same year as Brian!
- Smaller chateau, but still cute.

- This isn't the best picture of Chambord, but it has all of us in it! ;o)
- Filled with tapestries made from the Manufactures des Gobelins, our neighbor!
- Beautiful views from all 4 points of the chateau.
- Staircase with 2 different entry points, but the stairs never cross
- Horse show at 4:30pm, which we missed.
- Terrible audioguide. Don't bother!
Chenonceau
- Built to span across the river.
- Gorgeous gardens.
- Interesting rooms
- Pretty historically correct flower arrangements refreshed biweekly.
We also visited Chatres Cathedral, which has 2 stories of impressive stained glass and over 2000 sculptures. We had a great guided tour by Malcolm Miller, who authors the book about the cathedral. He was 73 and amazing!
We stayed at this amazing B&B in the Loire Valley called Chateau de Nazelles. It had an amazing garden, forests to romp in, delicious breakfast and great hosts.
Michael doesn't like to travel as much as his parents. On this trip, he woke up 3 times every night, wouldn't nurse because everything was so interested, and fussed almost the entire time he was in the car. It was pretty hard to travel with him so we are re-thinking about going anywhere until he is a bit older. So we say!
Love,
B&P
Brian took me out on our first date night since March when THE MOM came. We had dinner at Thomieux (sp?), which was excellent!!! The plates had the restaurant's name on it. FANCY. We shared an appetizer of foie gras and both had confit de canard, which wikipedia describes as:
The confit is prepared in a centuries-old process of preservation that consists of salting (with garlic and spices) a piece of meat (generally goose, duck, or pork) and then cooking it in its own fat or broth. Usually the meat is placed in a crock or pot, covered and poached or braised for up to nine hours in its own fat.

We were joined at dinner by the fattest cat I have ever seen:
And a view of the Eiffel Tower on the street where our restaurant was. Here we are walking home:

It was romantic and magical and such a nice treat for Brian and I.
Loire valley next.
Monday: Michael visited Chatres Cathedral and took a tour by Malcom Miller. He slept while we learned about stained glass. He tried to eat at a little cafe near the Cathedral, but wasn't terribly interested, as was his disposition toward eating for the remainder of the trip. He was actually ok in the car until we were almost at Nazelles. At which point he started to fuss, but we were close enough.
Tuesday: Michael decided to visit Cheverny and Chambord chateaus. He liked being carried around mostly and decided that the stroller was for commoners. We then went to L'Epicurie in Amboise for dinner after driving around Bloise which had absolutely nothing. This night, Michael also discovered cats for the first time. Our B&B has cat who was sleeping on a couch. Brian set Michael down right next to the cat and Michael lovingly petted it. He liked the soft fur. Then, Michael decided to beat the cat like he does his other toys. Luckily, the cat seemed used to it and didn't care.
Wednesday: Michael visited Chenonceau and seemed rather tired of all the chateaus. As if it was a bit boring. Then, he decided to be the fussiest he has ever been in the car all the way back to Paris. My mom and I did everything we could to keep him happy. It was HARD.
Michael has been having a terrible go of going to sleep at night since we went to the hospital. he fusses and fusses and fusses. Brian wants to Ferber him and make him go to sleep by himself, but I can't bear to hear him cry. I usually give him and pick him up and hold him for a while. Last night, he cried for 40 minutes. :o( After I held him for a while, he slept ok for the night and didn't wake up until 6:20am. We'll have to see what we should do now for his sleep.
Today, I am making him make up for all the food he DIDN'T eat while we were away. The baby would not nurse because he was so interested in everything else. *sigh*
Love,
P
Sunday, May 06, 2007
Playmat
Between meals this afternoon, Mom and son watched a little television. It as really cute because Michael grabbed Phuong's arm and held onto it. He's been doing a lot of that lately, reaching for Phuong and looking for his mommy. And as these photos show, he has been sitting up increasingly well.
Much of the day is spent tickling Michael in various ways so that he giggles uncontrollably. This includes tickling his armpits outright, putting your hair in his face, tickling his back or playing various forms of peek-a-boo. It's really funny to hear him squealing and giggling.
He has also been saying dadadada alot and gurgling his breastmilk. Punk.
Saturday, May 05, 2007
Yogurt, mon premier Danone!
We took the boy out to Bercy, Place de la Nation and Picpus in the 12th arrondissement this afternoon on metro line 6. He slept a lot and didn't really indicate whether he liked Picpus or not. I liked it plenty. I liked Picpus and Nation was hopping. Bercy Village, an American style shopping area like Rice Village in Houston, was really disappointing. We won't be going there any more. Neither will the caveboy. I had a Magnum Blanc. Michael was jealous.
Phuong went out to get a sandwich grec tonight while the boy and I played fun games like Peek-a-boo and also had plenty of time for zerberts and tickling. I love to zerbert him near his neck because he laughs uncontrollably. He's very fun and silly. Then he got hungry and fussy. But to give Phuong time to eat, we watched some MTV. He likes to bop to the music.
I will try my best to post everyday. It will be fast, quick snipits, and full of details only his loving great grandparents and grandparents will care about!
This blog will only be about Michael!
Love,
P
I stayed with a coworker at his parents' house on the outskirts of Grenoble, and we set off for the meeting at about 8:00, running late. I've been to French meetings before and know they start late and lack structure, but I've never presented at a French meeting. In the US, I would have arrived early, set up the projecter and presentation, and been ready to go by 8:30. In contrast, we arrived at the entrance gate at 8:40. Two cars ahead of us at the gate was one of the guys with whom we were supposed to meet. It also turned out that because I am a foreigner, there were some special forms we had to fill out that we had forgotten to request. So we finally got into the facility at about 9:10. Then we met some other colleagues working there. We arrived at the meeting room around 9:30 and there was no projector. So after finding a projector that turned out to be broken and having some coffee and croissants (as it was croissant Friday) we started without a projector. It was a small group, 6 of us, so that was ok. A bit later, one of the guys left the meeting and came back with a projector that works. Then the technical director arrived about 10:30, halfway through the meeting, because he had some other things to attend to first. A second participant left about 15 minutes later. After all was said and done, it was actually very productive and went over well. So that's how French meetings work.
I was talking about it afterwards in the railstation bar with an English coworker, who was also down in Grenoble for the day, and he told me a funny story about a meeting he had been to in Spain. It was to start at 10:00am. Since he has been in France for awhile, he was smart, arrived around 10:15 and was greeted by another Englishman and a couple of Germans. About 10:45 some other people start trickling in. At 11:15, the Spanish professor who had organized the meeting rolls in and starts setting up his presentation. Finally, after 11:30 the talk finally gets going.
Friday, May 04, 2007

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Tuesday, May 01, 2007
Sunday, April 29, 2007
Michael's fontanelle is still a bit high, but it has gone down quite a bit. When he's sitting in his high chair or held up, it's actually pretty flat and you can see it pulsating again!
We'll see if he holds out and keeps being better. He is eating well again, which is great. Apparently, I was feeding him when he wasn't hungry. GO FIGURE. Now, the next challenge is to get him to take the bottle again!
After talking to Sara White, she pointed out something I had not yet realized about Michael. And that was that he is a person now with a personality. He can discern whether or not he is hungry, whether or not he wants to play, go to bed, or have fun. And I've still been thinking of him as this newborn that I had to wake up to feed. So this made me feel tons better!
Anyways, we really appreciate all of your prayers and support through this time for us. It is amazing how God provides you with strength through your family and friends.
Love,
B&P






