Wednesday, April 28, 2010
Poll
"Eating on my deck, overlooking the forest on our peaceful 2 acres of land...or eating on a rooftop, overlooking Sevilla."
Which would you choose?
One other thing that HAS to make the blog for me:
Today, Michael climbed into my lap, gave me a huge hug and kiss, and said:
"Mommy, I love you so much. We will always be friends."
I hope that will always be true. I'll remind him of this day when he's 13.
Photos...finally right?
Anyways...here is a recap filled with pics of random instances in our last 4 months here in the NE.
Our apartment used to be within walking distance of a Dairy Queen. One day when Brian had the car at work (we were sharing 1), Michael and I decided to take advantage:
Here's our house covered in the huge snowfall this year:
A little out of order, but last Tuesday, Michael and I ventured into Amish country to see the outlet malls in Lancaster. To be honest, it was my excuse to go to Cracker Barrel, and Michael and I shared this strawberry shortcake dessert:
As you can see, that dessert is much closer to Michael than me. He got a brain freeze though and I got the rest!!Had to get a tractor for our life in the country. Here's Michael's first ride on a tractor at Home Depot:
Little did I know that Brian would take another 3 weeks to decide on which tractor he would actually buy (it was a John Deere).Michael and I have done a lot of shopping in the last 3 months. I was in search of a cheap mattress set so I ended up at this REALLY cheapo furniture store to see what they had.
To get a feel for the place, let's start out with their kid's recliners circa 1970:
Michael was super impressed with their baseball chair. And honestly, who wouldn't be?
Here's a picture of Michael sitting at the desk under a bunk bed. He made me pretend he was the cashier and I was supposed to pay for things with my $1. This is him banging on the table demanding money:
Check out that sweet baseball ottoman in the background. It goes with the also sweet baseball chair.We ended up at Kohl's back in February some time. Michael got one of their pseudo shopping carts and announced to me that they had shopping carts for kids here! He took it over to some necklaces, inspected them, and put them back on the rack. After this, I was not allowed to touch the shopping cart.
For entertainment, I let Michael play with my iphone. This is the picture Michael took in the bedding department:So 2 Thursdays ago, The Besancons found themselves doing this to save a buck (or rather $150)...
That's right. Ghetto stylin' it by transporting our mattresses home via the roof of our car. This avoids PA sales tax and a delivery fee. And the guy gave us over 50% off on the mattress set because we were taking it that day!! The only thing missing was us with our hands out the window holding it down.Another sales day...Michael at Pottery Barn. Here he is posing at a possible night stand:
We didn't buy it because the top was attached crooked on the top. It hung about an inch more on the right than on the left.
Michael LOVES these decorative wheelbarrows at Pottery Barn. He thinks they are for him:
Makes me want to buy the kids sized wheelbarrow from Land of Nod for him. I was told NO. By guess who...Last Thursday, I took Michael to something called "Chinese Boogie." It was semi-hokey, but something to do. This is the dragon they had the kids do:
Don't look hard, Michael's not in that picture. He wanted nothing to do with that dragon and was at the END of parade line of kids.So my kid is a photographer waiting to happen. I hope he loves this hobby as much as me. Here are some pictures he has taken with my iphone. I LOVE the angles he gets:
View out of his car window. I know it's dark and of a warehouse...but I like the sky:
Of Mom in the car:
I love this picture:
I'm going to incorporate some bling with the red and some mirrored furniture or opt out of the black frames and go with mirrored frames like this room at Ethan Allen:
This room is also my inspiration for my grey bathroom. Notice a lot of blue/mirrored stuff? I guess I'm in a glam phase for the little bits of the house where I get to be girlie.To offset it, are some very traditional couches we will probably get:
I'm not THRILLED with the boring color choices there...I'm looking for something a bit more graphic...just need some PUNCH in there! I like the shape/color of the wood of this dining room table. It kind of matches our cabinets and the black legs matches our granite:
But I am drawn to the upholstery in this chair here with the green and cream and it's shape. Wonder how to use it???
VOILA! More pics than words I hope! And maybe I'll have some new pics to post after this weekend???Love to all,
P
Friday, April 09, 2010
Crap About Blogging
To answer a question I've been getting: The house is officially listed as 2200 sq ft at the tax assessor's office. I think it really is 1900 sq ft with an additional 400-500 sq ft in the basement.
I just need to jot some things down so you may want to skip this post if you want any useful information. Skip to the end about Michael's latest funny antics.
March 26 - closed on our house
March 27 - moved in with lots lots lots of help from Joen/Tony; The Gaglianos; Bill/AK. Spent the 1st night in the house up wondering if I could breath because I was allergic.
March 28 - Bill/AK leave in the early afternoon and we spend our first day/night on our own here.
Lots of unpacking happens after this. I resolve my allergy problem by 1) cleaning the air ducts/ steam cleaning the carpet to get the cat dander out (which I am allergic to). This in turn, got my allergies under control enough that my nose stopped running/stopping up enough for me to get my nasal spray to penetrate in my nose and work. Gross, but effective. Now 2-3 days after figuring this out, I am almost normal. Also helps that the trees are almost done blooming in our neighborhood and we ran the air conditioner for 2-3 days which helped to filter out some more allergens. Yes, I am allergic the country. Thank God for the French system of medicine where my Ob/Gyn wrote me a prescription for a year's worth of my allergy medication. In America, I would have had to go to my allergist also once a year to get lectured about getting shots and then get my prescription for the year. Don't argue with me about which method is actually probably safer.
I digress. Not going to complain about how I finally got a doctor's appt for Michael for a well kid check. That is a blog for another day.
Also another tangent. Grocery shopping at the American grocery stores is getting boring. I figured out why. It's because all the shelves are always stocked full of everything. They might be out of 1 thing...but it's highly unlikely. It's probably just behind something else. In Paris, you NEVER knew what they would have in stock and what they wouldn't. So going to the grocery store was actually quite a surprise. At the time, I found it an annoyance. Now, I find it boring that everything is always in stock here.
Trader Joe's though...they sometimes run out of things. I tell you, if I didn't have Trader Joe's, I'd be in a real bind. If you want stuff that's the most similar to French stuff, you can go there. It's my happy place. I love getting their "Fearless Flyer" and finding out about the "new" stuff they have that's developed straight from France. And their frozen Indian food ain't half bad either.
OK...MICHAEL STUFF
- I was showing Brian how the different pedals change the sound of the piano. Michael decides to take over and says, "See Daddy, when you push this pedal, it makes it sound like Coldplay." IF ONLY!
- We passed by a cemetary and Brian says, "Here's a cemetary. It's where dead things go." And MIchael responds, "That's where stinkbugs go!" We used to get a lot of stink bugs at the apt and Brian would capture them into our bug jar until they died. Hence, Michael's frame of reality.
- Michael likes to point his finger a lot. When he's talkin' to you, YOU know it.
- An oldie, but goodie: Michael tells me he is scared of worms because they don't talk.
- Michael and I played our first piano "duet" today. He played middle C while I played the accompanying adult part. It was actually very cute and sounded right. Am loving having my piano here. Thank you so much to my parents who thought it was useful to give me lessons and buy me a piano.
- Michael gets on the piano 2-3 times a day. I'll be doing something in the kitchen and I'll hear him banging away. I love this.
OK...got our storage shipment on Wednesday. Am ashamed at our accumulation of stuff. I had 4 flour sifters. 2 old fashioned ones and 2 more "modern" ones that used a pumping handle.
For every box we go through, I would say that we are donating about 80-90% of it.
Next Tangent: It is shameful how I wasted money before on "stuff." I am so glad we lived somewhere that had space as a premium. So now, we don't need all the "stuff" anymore. We buy one thing, make sure we love it and it's good quality, and use it until it's broken. Then we replace it. No more accumulating crap. No more buying multiples of things. No more thinking I "need" all this stuff I don't. No more Consumerism. NO MORE!!!!!
Tuesday, March 23, 2010
My New Home
Michael here...ready to introduce you to the 1st 2 floors of our new home! We'll start the tour off with me sitting in our family room on our new rug. My Dad really likes that rug:
He says it really ties the room together. Mom and dad laugh a lot at that joke and I'm not sure why.
Anyways, when you first walk into the house, you see a little open foyer to the right where the stair case is. Straight in front of you is the family room.
To the left of the doorway is our dining room. It is not as big as it looks in this picture:
So now, we enter - The Man Cave:
That's it for now. She forgot to take pictures of the 2nd floor. Maybe she'll do it after we move in? I think she was more worried about how the toilets were going to flush. We seem to need excellent suction in them from time to time.
Wednesday, March 17, 2010
Pop Tarts
It has begun. The consuming of processed goods. I am glad it did not start until age 3.
I know it won't be his last pop tart. But I know we will never have pop tarts at our house E-V-E-R.
It tasted like plastic. My son likes plastic. UGH.
P
Sunday, March 14, 2010
Quick Weekend Recap
Friday:
I HAD to get out. No ifs ands or buts about it. So we just got in the car and left. No plan. Ended up at Iron Hill Brewery in downtown Newark and LOVED it!! It was loud, busy, and very cool (kind of like Iron Cactus in Austin) and the food was great. It reminded me of the restaurants we used to eat back in the day in Austin and I just really needed that! Michael inhaled his dinner of fish and chips, broccoli, french fries and ice cream. Yes, all of it. He loved staring through the window at the fermenter units...good grief...an engineer on our hands. Brian and I split a seafood bisque. Then I had a lump crabcake sandwich with lots of vegetables on the sandwich and as a salad. Brian had a seafood pot pie. DELICIOUS. Perfect restaurant with good food, loud atmosphere to mask Michael's craziness, and booths. That's it. That's all we ever ask for.
Saturday:
Brian gave me the day off! SO I shopped at the mall. Ran into Gymboree, got to talkin' to the sales lady and she tells me that she has oodles of kaboodles of sales stuff in the back. There's no room for them at the front of the store so it's just back there...at prices from $1.99-$9.99. She was so sweet and ran back there and grabbed me all sorts of things for Michael that I could go through. I got some pretty sweet deals (shorts for $1.99, pants for $2.99). And I"m going back this week for more! I read some books/magazines at Barnes and Noble because I like to do that. And then it was time to come home to my happy family! I made Chicken Cacciatore and we had Family Movie Night. We watched UP and we still love that movie.
Sunday:
Still raining. Went to our church, which we really like. Michael ate too many goldfishes, starts choking, then threw up the rest. EWWwww...so we hustle him out into the front foyer away from the service and clean him up a bit. Luckily, it wasn't a lot...but it was still yucky. The rest of the mass was just fine! Michael got his first blessing from the priest and he was pretty happy about that! Then we went over to The Gaglianos for lunch. We checked out their bathroom remodeling plans, then played Wii. It was really nice.
That's it. Just wanted to write it down.
Monday, March 08, 2010
Our New Nephew: Quinn!
We did not have much time to get many pictures this weekend what with the eating, pooping, sleeping that we did...oh wait, that was Quinn. BUT! We did score my favorite picture of Quinn in his Man U onesie:
I think Quinn was enjoying his nap in this picture:
Wish I could have gotten there a couple weeks ago when he was comatose and asleep! Could have come up with some pretty cool newborn shots I think! Quinn is starting to be more alert and wakes up a bit easier (as normal at a month old!) so it was a bit hard to get him just right!Sunday morning, we went to John and Kelli's very warm and welcoming church. Had a quick lunch/brunch at a local bakery and hung out at home/park. Michael got to spend some quality time with his uncle and met Bella for the first time. He was smitten!
It was a great weekend to spend time with our family, something we really missed being so far away. This is one of the biggest reasons we moved back Stateside. We just were tired of missing everything. And we loved our weekend! It satisfied our "travel itch" that comes about once ever 2 months or so and it made us happy to be around the newest addition to our world!
P
Monday, February 22, 2010
Lack of Blogging
1. Our laptop is hooked up to our TV because the screen is broken on the laptop. Yes, we are still using THAT laptop.
2. So because said laptop is hooked up to the TV, I don't use it much at all anymore.
3. Too busy playing golf with MIchael, or soccer, or running around town, or hungry hippos or chutes and ladders, or puzzles, or workbooks, or getting examed by "Dr. Besancon."
4. During my naptime break, I'm too busy watching HGTV instead of on the internet like before.
5. And because of #1, I can't multi task and watch HGTV while blogging.
6. I can chk my mail/etc on the iphone...so I don't NEED to get on the laptop as much.
But one day, we'll get back to it. The 2nd Saturday in February, we went to Home Depot and they had a Kids Workshop! Michael and Brian built a little garage for his cars and it was adorable. It was completely free and usually the 1st Saturday of every month from 9am-12pm. We had some cute pictures and will post soon. We'll see.
Love,
P
Sunday, February 07, 2010
"Snomageddon" and such
On Saturday, January 23, we took off to visit Winterthur, the original home of the Du Pont family. They were having a free admission day so despite the windy 30 degree weather, we were going out there BY GOLLY. Especially because it was free. Especially because we wanted to do something "normal" instead of house hunting or buying cars or all the stupid grown up things we've been up to.
They had a very neat little children's play area...very imaginative. A bit spooky, but Brian got a cool picture of Michael playing around it:
And they had this funny mushroom garden that Michael loved walking around on:We had a great time and then drove 30 minutes out of the way to get some Chipotle for Brian in West Chester, PA. It was WORTH EVERY MINUTE.
On January 31st, we got our 1st snow here. Michael was not about to wait until morning to play in the snow. So at 9:00pm, he grabbed his shovel and went to work:
This Friday night - Saturday afternoon, we got a full out winter storm. "Snomageddon" as Obama was calling it. I don't know about that in DE, but I hear it was a bear in D.C.!
Then Saturday, we were housebound until 4pm. When it stopped snowing all over, we stepped outside for another playday!
Brian and Michael are SO SO CUTE in this picture:
Michael playing in a huge pile of snow:
Gonna do some room in my house (not sure which) with these berries, dark brown, light blue (maybe very light turqouise) and this gorgeous deepish red. Kind of like my blog design, but more like the colors at this bridal shower:As you can see, got a lot of decorating ideas in my head right now. We put a very low ball offer on a house today and am wondering if they'll send us back to our apartment rental. :)
Love,
Wednesday, February 03, 2010
SEA SHIPMENT DAY!
I was staring at the 'breakfast room' in my apartment and thinking, "I wonder if our dining room table from France is going to fit in here. It was pretty big."
Today, they delivered the table and set it up in my breakfast room and the table is TINY. Talk about frame of reference! I forget how much bigger everything in America is! And we were worried our stuff wouldn't fit in our apartment here. DUH...of course our 700 sq ft of stuff from France is going to fit in our 1300 sq ft apartment from America. DOUBLE DUH.
What was hilarious is the movers showed up in a 53 foot 18 wheeler truck. Brian and I looked at each other and said, "I hope that's not full." So they swing open the door and to our comical relief, the truck wasn't even half full. I think we took up about 20 ft of that 53 ft truck. I hope that never changes, but I'm sure it will.
I told you I have "Ahh..I miss France moments." Here's one of them, thumbing through the Restoration Hardware catalog:
It IS just a bathroom vanity. And it is a bit rustic for me...BUT...see the hardware in the middle of the cabinet doors? That is exactly like the way the French window doors are out to our balcony in Paris. Ahhh...I miss my Paris life. Here's a closeup of the handle:
Naturally, I have to have this. Going to put it in the powder room of my proposed new home. Going to ignore that the single sink vanity is well over $1000. Going to REALLY ignore that!Also going to peruse ebay for sales on an Antique map of Paris that has Avenue des Gobelins on it.
Enough fluff for the day! John and Kelli were headed to the hospital at 5:45am this morning. Kelli now has her epidural and is headed to labor and delivery. Absolutely cannot wait to see Quinn, our new nephew. What a blessing a new baby is in our family!!
Love,
P
Friday, January 22, 2010
Four Course Meal
You start with your appetizers. Something simple like olives or beans mixed with a good olive oil/fresh herbs with baguette, or a simple dip with crackers. No need to break the bank or spend more than 5 minutes on it.
Then, you have your main course. It usually has a protein (meat/fish), starch and an optional vegetables.
Optional - 5th course would be a salad between the main meal and cheese plate. But if we're talking about 4 course meal, this would be skipped.
After the main meal, it's cheese time. Of course...mostly raw milk cheeses from Androuet. OF COURSE. :)
Then, dessert. Sometimes I make a cake, but more often, the boulangerie puts my guests' minds at ease by keeping me out of baking. It's not my forte. I like to think it's because I don't own a kitchen timer, but I think I am just bad at it.
I like this. I like the 3 hour meal. I like the bounty of food. I like that dinner is not over in 30 minutes.
That's it. Just missing this. And a good olive oil. Anyone know of a good olive oil here in the states?!?! I have a bottle of Maille olive oil coming from France. But in the mean time (and for after)...I would like to have a good olive oil.
Also...
Any opinions on buying a new construction house vs. a resale house? Just need a general discussion.
We are weighing options!! It is horrible to be so grown up.
Love,
P
Thursday, January 21, 2010
Eats
http://kropkafamilyeats.blogspot.com/
Been really impressed with it so far! Most of her stuff is super easy to make and it's really good. Uses normal ingredients and tastes delicious. I've made her Green Chile Enchiladas, Green Chile cheesy rice, and Butternut squash pasta sauce. ALL delicious! Can't wait to read more. HINT KIM!!! I'm making your Asian salad next which I think is as Asian as your French chicken dumplings are French. But I think it sounds delicious so I'm making it! :)
I Miss Paris. A>LOT
So I knew I would miss Paris...but I never knew how much. TO think I might not ever go back there to live. In my head, I still say, "Next time we're back in Paris, I need to get ______."
Like we're going back soon.
And now, I see French stuff everywhere. An article in Martha Stewart Living deconstructing Cassoulet. Yes, it deserves a capital C. And oh how I miss my French ingredients. My cooking is not the same.
SO I am in constant search of my "french life." The other day, I bought cucumbers from Costco because they were from England and the most like the gigantic cucumbers I used to eat in France.
I buy my yogurt from Trader Joe's because it's the most like the French yogurt. Yoplait just tastes like something manufactured instead of food.
I think along the way, I am going to post random posts about things I miss that I didn't expect. I had a moment the other day and now I can't remember what it was. It was something small.
Like...I miss walking up Avenue des Gobelins towards Rue Mouffetard on a Sunday to go to church, buy things for market, and walking back home. And now I can post about it because we don't live there anymore.
I love the Chinese rotisserie chicken guy who seasoned his chicken with Chinese 5 spice so it was as good as getting Chinese barbeque.
I miss getting all bundled up with a sweater, scarf, coat, gloves, hat, etc for the cold because we'd be walking. Now, I just wear a coat, run to my car, and then run to the store.
I miss walking.
I miss walking around with crumbs down my clothes all the time because I was always eating a pastry or a baguette.
I miss my vacation in the Southwest of France. I think that was my favorite one. People ask me all the time about my favorite vacation...and I usually list about 3. But I think I have a winner now.
I apparently don't want to go to bed if I am blogging about this at 12:14am.
I REALLY miss the Senko bakery on the street that runs to the right of the American church. They make an AMAZING ratatouille that I need to start working on to recreate it.
I think that's the thing I miss the most. The food. More than anything else. The vacations and the food. I am constantly wondering where I'll find the ingredients I need and what they will taste like.
Ok, that's enough. I need to go to bed.
P
Monday, January 18, 2010
New Year, New Post, New Blog Title, New Place
Well, let's finish up our last moments in Paris.
First up, Brian's work party for the kiddos at Christmas. They turned Michael into a tiger:
The movers came and Michael and I ran downstairs to play with the snow on our street:
On our last day in Paris, Saturday I believe it was, we started by going to see the big Christmas tree at Notre Dame. I thought Michael would be interested, but he was too cold and buried himself in his Dad's jacket the whole way.
Dang this camera...could have used some fill flash. But we at least have a family picture in front of Notre Dame! Our 1st one on our last day in Paris
Afterwards, lunch at our favorite restaurant, Au Petit Marguery...this time with Michael. He enjoyed a nice lunch of fish, sauteed vegetables, fois gras/pates, mushrooms, cornichons...gosh, so proud of my little gourmand. Our favorite waiter was there and we were sad to say good bye.
So now...new chapter, new place. No longer the Besancon Life in Paris. What should I name my blog now?
Suggestions? Ideas? Post them in Comments!
Love,
P




