Sunday, March 14, 2010
Quick Weekend Recap
Friday:
I HAD to get out. No ifs ands or buts about it. So we just got in the car and left. No plan. Ended up at Iron Hill Brewery in downtown Newark and LOVED it!! It was loud, busy, and very cool (kind of like Iron Cactus in Austin) and the food was great. It reminded me of the restaurants we used to eat back in the day in Austin and I just really needed that! Michael inhaled his dinner of fish and chips, broccoli, french fries and ice cream. Yes, all of it. He loved staring through the window at the fermenter units...good grief...an engineer on our hands. Brian and I split a seafood bisque. Then I had a lump crabcake sandwich with lots of vegetables on the sandwich and as a salad. Brian had a seafood pot pie. DELICIOUS. Perfect restaurant with good food, loud atmosphere to mask Michael's craziness, and booths. That's it. That's all we ever ask for.
Saturday:
Brian gave me the day off! SO I shopped at the mall. Ran into Gymboree, got to talkin' to the sales lady and she tells me that she has oodles of kaboodles of sales stuff in the back. There's no room for them at the front of the store so it's just back there...at prices from $1.99-$9.99. She was so sweet and ran back there and grabbed me all sorts of things for Michael that I could go through. I got some pretty sweet deals (shorts for $1.99, pants for $2.99). And I"m going back this week for more! I read some books/magazines at Barnes and Noble because I like to do that. And then it was time to come home to my happy family! I made Chicken Cacciatore and we had Family Movie Night. We watched UP and we still love that movie.
Sunday:
Still raining. Went to our church, which we really like. Michael ate too many goldfishes, starts choking, then threw up the rest. EWWwww...so we hustle him out into the front foyer away from the service and clean him up a bit. Luckily, it wasn't a lot...but it was still yucky. The rest of the mass was just fine! Michael got his first blessing from the priest and he was pretty happy about that! Then we went over to The Gaglianos for lunch. We checked out their bathroom remodeling plans, then played Wii. It was really nice.
That's it. Just wanted to write it down.
Monday, March 08, 2010
Our New Nephew: Quinn!



Sunday morning, we went to John and Kelli's very warm and welcoming church. Had a quick lunch/brunch at a local bakery and hung out at home/park. Michael got to spend some quality time with his uncle and met Bella for the first time. He was smitten!
It was a great weekend to spend time with our family, something we really missed being so far away. This is one of the biggest reasons we moved back Stateside. We just were tired of missing everything. And we loved our weekend! It satisfied our "travel itch" that comes about once ever 2 months or so and it made us happy to be around the newest addition to our world!
P
Monday, February 22, 2010
Lack of Blogging
1. Our laptop is hooked up to our TV because the screen is broken on the laptop. Yes, we are still using THAT laptop.
2. So because said laptop is hooked up to the TV, I don't use it much at all anymore.
3. Too busy playing golf with MIchael, or soccer, or running around town, or hungry hippos or chutes and ladders, or puzzles, or workbooks, or getting examed by "Dr. Besancon."
4. During my naptime break, I'm too busy watching HGTV instead of on the internet like before.
5. And because of #1, I can't multi task and watch HGTV while blogging.
6. I can chk my mail/etc on the iphone...so I don't NEED to get on the laptop as much.
But one day, we'll get back to it. The 2nd Saturday in February, we went to Home Depot and they had a Kids Workshop! Michael and Brian built a little garage for his cars and it was adorable. It was completely free and usually the 1st Saturday of every month from 9am-12pm. We had some cute pictures and will post soon. We'll see.
Love,
P
Sunday, February 07, 2010
"Snomageddon" and such
On Saturday, January 23, we took off to visit Winterthur, the original home of the Du Pont family. They were having a free admission day so despite the windy 30 degree weather, we were going out there BY GOLLY. Especially because it was free. Especially because we wanted to do something "normal" instead of house hunting or buying cars or all the stupid grown up things we've been up to.
They had a very neat little children's play area...very imaginative. A bit spooky, but Brian got a cool picture of Michael playing around it:
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We had a great time and then drove 30 minutes out of the way to get some Chipotle for Brian in West Chester, PA. It was WORTH EVERY MINUTE.
On January 31st, we got our 1st snow here. Michael was not about to wait until morning to play in the snow. So at 9:00pm, he grabbed his shovel and went to work:
This Friday night - Saturday afternoon, we got a full out winter storm. "Snomageddon" as Obama was calling it. I don't know about that in DE, but I hear it was a bear in D.C.!
Then Saturday, we were housebound until 4pm. When it stopped snowing all over, we stepped outside for another playday!
Brian and Michael are SO SO CUTE in this picture:
Michael playing in a huge pile of snow:

As you can see, got a lot of decorating ideas in my head right now. We put a very low ball offer on a house today and am wondering if they'll send us back to our apartment rental. :)
Love,
Wednesday, February 03, 2010
SEA SHIPMENT DAY!
I was staring at the 'breakfast room' in my apartment and thinking, "I wonder if our dining room table from France is going to fit in here. It was pretty big."
Today, they delivered the table and set it up in my breakfast room and the table is TINY. Talk about frame of reference! I forget how much bigger everything in America is! And we were worried our stuff wouldn't fit in our apartment here. DUH...of course our 700 sq ft of stuff from France is going to fit in our 1300 sq ft apartment from America. DOUBLE DUH.
What was hilarious is the movers showed up in a 53 foot 18 wheeler truck. Brian and I looked at each other and said, "I hope that's not full." So they swing open the door and to our comical relief, the truck wasn't even half full. I think we took up about 20 ft of that 53 ft truck. I hope that never changes, but I'm sure it will.
I told you I have "Ahh..I miss France moments." Here's one of them, thumbing through the Restoration Hardware catalog:


Also going to peruse ebay for sales on an Antique map of Paris that has Avenue des Gobelins on it.
Enough fluff for the day! John and Kelli were headed to the hospital at 5:45am this morning. Kelli now has her epidural and is headed to labor and delivery. Absolutely cannot wait to see Quinn, our new nephew. What a blessing a new baby is in our family!!
Love,
P
Friday, January 22, 2010
Four Course Meal
You start with your appetizers. Something simple like olives or beans mixed with a good olive oil/fresh herbs with baguette, or a simple dip with crackers. No need to break the bank or spend more than 5 minutes on it.
Then, you have your main course. It usually has a protein (meat/fish), starch and an optional vegetables.
Optional - 5th course would be a salad between the main meal and cheese plate. But if we're talking about 4 course meal, this would be skipped.
After the main meal, it's cheese time. Of course...mostly raw milk cheeses from Androuet. OF COURSE. :)
Then, dessert. Sometimes I make a cake, but more often, the boulangerie puts my guests' minds at ease by keeping me out of baking. It's not my forte. I like to think it's because I don't own a kitchen timer, but I think I am just bad at it.
I like this. I like the 3 hour meal. I like the bounty of food. I like that dinner is not over in 30 minutes.
That's it. Just missing this. And a good olive oil. Anyone know of a good olive oil here in the states?!?! I have a bottle of Maille olive oil coming from France. But in the mean time (and for after)...I would like to have a good olive oil.
Also...
Any opinions on buying a new construction house vs. a resale house? Just need a general discussion.
We are weighing options!! It is horrible to be so grown up.
Love,
P
Thursday, January 21, 2010
Eats
http://kropkafamilyeats.blogspot.com/
Been really impressed with it so far! Most of her stuff is super easy to make and it's really good. Uses normal ingredients and tastes delicious. I've made her Green Chile Enchiladas, Green Chile cheesy rice, and Butternut squash pasta sauce. ALL delicious! Can't wait to read more. HINT KIM!!! I'm making your Asian salad next which I think is as Asian as your French chicken dumplings are French. But I think it sounds delicious so I'm making it! :)
I Miss Paris. A>LOT
So I knew I would miss Paris...but I never knew how much. TO think I might not ever go back there to live. In my head, I still say, "Next time we're back in Paris, I need to get ______."
Like we're going back soon.
And now, I see French stuff everywhere. An article in Martha Stewart Living deconstructing Cassoulet. Yes, it deserves a capital C. And oh how I miss my French ingredients. My cooking is not the same.
SO I am in constant search of my "french life." The other day, I bought cucumbers from Costco because they were from England and the most like the gigantic cucumbers I used to eat in France.
I buy my yogurt from Trader Joe's because it's the most like the French yogurt. Yoplait just tastes like something manufactured instead of food.
I think along the way, I am going to post random posts about things I miss that I didn't expect. I had a moment the other day and now I can't remember what it was. It was something small.
Like...I miss walking up Avenue des Gobelins towards Rue Mouffetard on a Sunday to go to church, buy things for market, and walking back home. And now I can post about it because we don't live there anymore.
I love the Chinese rotisserie chicken guy who seasoned his chicken with Chinese 5 spice so it was as good as getting Chinese barbeque.
I miss getting all bundled up with a sweater, scarf, coat, gloves, hat, etc for the cold because we'd be walking. Now, I just wear a coat, run to my car, and then run to the store.
I miss walking.
I miss walking around with crumbs down my clothes all the time because I was always eating a pastry or a baguette.
I miss my vacation in the Southwest of France. I think that was my favorite one. People ask me all the time about my favorite vacation...and I usually list about 3. But I think I have a winner now.
I apparently don't want to go to bed if I am blogging about this at 12:14am.
I REALLY miss the Senko bakery on the street that runs to the right of the American church. They make an AMAZING ratatouille that I need to start working on to recreate it.
I think that's the thing I miss the most. The food. More than anything else. The vacations and the food. I am constantly wondering where I'll find the ingredients I need and what they will taste like.
Ok, that's enough. I need to go to bed.
P
Monday, January 18, 2010
New Year, New Post, New Blog Title, New Place
Well, let's finish up our last moments in Paris.
First up, Brian's work party for the kiddos at Christmas. They turned Michael into a tiger:
The movers came and Michael and I ran downstairs to play with the snow on our street:
On our last day in Paris, Saturday I believe it was, we started by going to see the big Christmas tree at Notre Dame. I thought Michael would be interested, but he was too cold and buried himself in his Dad's jacket the whole way.
Dang this camera...could have used some fill flash. But we at least have a family picture in front of Notre Dame! Our 1st one on our last day in Paris
Afterwards, lunch at our favorite restaurant, Au Petit Marguery...this time with Michael. He enjoyed a nice lunch of fish, sauteed vegetables, fois gras/pates, mushrooms, cornichons...gosh, so proud of my little gourmand. Our favorite waiter was there and we were sad to say good bye.
So now...new chapter, new place. No longer the Besancon Life in Paris. What should I name my blog now?
Suggestions? Ideas? Post them in Comments!
Love,
P
Wednesday, December 16, 2009
All Things French
It's strange. Everyone's France is different. What reminds me of France, may not be what reminds someone else of their France!
So I say what things I have bought...and I usually get a blank stare. Like a , "Oh, huh, that's interesting."
NOT.
So I'm going to post the things I have purchased and why I have purchased them and why they are France to me. So if you're bored, continue!
1) Tuna - there is a tuna brand here. Canned tuna. That doesn't taste at all fishy. Comes in these huge chunks. Does not have a metallic taste. It's so good, I don't even add mayonnaise to it. I just eat it with salad and a light vinaigrette. Add on some chevre toasted in the oven on small baguette slices and it's my heaven.
2) Sardines - it's packed with tomatoes, onions, peppers. It's awful to most people. But my dad used to eat sardines and he shared them with me and rice/baguette. It's a memory with my dad, and it's a memory for me here too.
3) Emile Henry cooking ceramics - purchased a small baking terrine and a tarte dish. I love the colors here. The tarte dish is bright green and I love to make quiches so it will be perfect. The terrine dish is this gorgeous deep purple which will remind me of my friend Mary who introduced me to the color and the brand.
4) Le Creuset stuff - the best. Everything I have made in these pots comes out good. It's really incredible. So now I have a mini collection: 5.5 quart round dutch oven, 4.5 oval dutch oven, grill pan, 4 mini cocottes, large terrine/fois gras maker, square baking dish.
5) Instant Coffee - they make instant expresso powder here. It's really good. MUCH better than instant coffee in the states.
6) Mariage Frere tea - my favorite. Always has been. Always will be. Drink it with a fresh baked croissant and THAT is my Paris.
7) Lentilles du Puy - my favorite lentilles. First time I have had it is here in Paris. So I bought some to bring back.
8) Honeys - not runny honey. But solid/spreadable honey. Great with butter and a baguette. My first time I had it was here!
9) Cassoulet in a can. Trying to get that through customs. Cassoulet is my favorite and I still have not had the guns to try to make it at home. I don't often meet a recipe that intimidates me, but cassoulet is it. And pho.
10) Clothes - I have boycotted French clothes for a long time. And I happily did it for 2 years. But once you live somewhere a while, you learn to like their style and adapt it with your own. So now, after living here for some time, I've finally started buying their clothes. And I Love it! My favorite brand is Comptoirs des Cotoniers and I've been trying to pick up little pieces here and there.
11) Books in French. Boring, but necessary to keep up the language.
12) Very processed madeleines. I hate to admit, but I love the ones carrefour and bonne maman make. So I brought some to bring back. I love them with tea.
13) Pompotes - Squeezable apple sauce. Michael LOVES them and they are SO easy for travel.
SO there you have it. Just a quick snippet. I'm a little scared to go back. We are used to life here...I'll have to re-learn everything when I go home. But at least, I'll be able to speak the language without thinking so hard.
Love,
P
Monday, December 14, 2009
Photoshoot Gone Wrong
Boys vs. Girl comparison is worth stating too.
In October, we had a playdate at the Champ des Mars with Karstyn/Katie/Elayna. We tried to get some pictures of Michael together with Karstyn and the Eiffel Tower. This is what we got:
Michael telling Karstyn something. Karstyn looking cute and doing what she's supposed to:
Sunday, December 13, 2009
Staying At Home
Guess I'm chopped liver right?
On Thursday of last week, I had a babysitter come from 9am-3pm so I could get some things done. I came home with food and spent lunch at home instead of out. While eating, Michael turns to me, takes my hand, and says:
"Mommy, you are home a lot with me."
"Yes, Michael, I am!"
"Mommy, I like you home a lot with me."
It was just nice to have some appreciation. To know that the sacrifices I made were worth it. To know that it made a difference to my son. It only took 3 years to get here. :)
Lately, he's been so lovey-dovey with us. Today, he walked into the kitchen and said, "Mommy, I need a hug." So of course, he gets one and he squeezes me as hard as he can and says, "Mommy, I love you SO much. I love you I love you I love you."
My goodness...if this is what happens when I let him watch TV and play on the Mickey Mouse Clubhouse website a lot because I am packing/etc...I sure am enjoying the rewards of being a "good" Mommy!
Just had to blog about it. As you can imagine, we are busy busy busy. Seeing our friends, eating out a lot, and just packing/sorting/cleaning.
Gotta post our latest pictures of Michael at Brian's company's Christmas Kids' Party. Let's just say he got his face painted as a tiger.
Love,
P
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
Baguette Update
Tuesday, November 24, 2009
Baguettes
Michael and I are making our own baguettes today. We're using the recipe from http://www.faire-son-pain.com/baguette-rustique
So far, so good. We have a ball of dough conforming to the description of "doesn't stick too much to the hands". Now two hours of rise time and we'll see what comes of it.
Here are some photos. Michael manned the flour additions - spooning flour onto my hands when the dough was really sticky. Then after it got less sticky, I let him knead the bread a bit! He liked kneading and then poking holes into the ball with his fingers.
Putting those little hands to work:
Monday, November 23, 2009
Laser Wars
Saturday, November 21, 2009
Green Beans
Mickey Mouse
Thursday, November 19, 2009
Disneyland Paris!
Here's one of our 1st pictures at the entrance. See, not every picture is perfect!
We did the Alice in Wonderland maze. The queen of hearts popped out of a box and was angry. That freaked Michael out for the rest of it. See Michael buried in Brian's shoulder here:
Then, we saw the parade at night, which he loved. After which, we went to Cafe Mickey where the characters come out and take pictures with you. Michael LOVED THAT! Here's Michael with Mickey:
After this, he became SUPER enthralled with a remote controlled Lightening McQueen car outside of a toy store. Can we say Christmas gift?
OK...It started out awesome, but then wasn't. Glad we didn't spend oodles of money flying, staying in a hotel, etc! We'll be back in 2-3 years in AMERICA when he's a little older and can ride space mountain with dad while mom sits on a bench!
Next time, I'm going to let Michael see what he wants to see without worrying about lines/etc. I think I tried to control the day too much trying to see all the rides/etc. Next time, I'm going to stand in the line to see Christmas Goofy even if it takes 30 minutes out of the day! Note to self: LET YOUR CHILD DICTATE WHAT THEY WANT TO DO IN A PLACE THAT IS MEANT FOR THEM.
Parenting is a constant learning process...
Friday, November 13, 2009
Nov. 11th.
We wandered out to Parc de Sceaux to meet one of Michael's 1st friends, Geo. We met Geo and his mom because she spoke English to him in Square Rene Legall. And me, in my sheer desperation clutching my then 6 month old Michael yelled out, "YOU SPEAK ENGLISH!!!"
And in my head, she was to be my friend. And luckily, it ended up happening that way!
So we spent the day with Geo and his family at the playground out there. It was REALLY imaginative and cool. Slides shaped like dinosaurs, play areas that looked like HUGE book cases, benches made of music notes/paper. And then a huge fort/play area with 2 tall slides. I would LOVE to do a shoot there one day!
The boys were a bit put off by the cold at first, but then warmed up little by little. It started witha bit of bubble blowing:
Then flying through the air:
After which we played some more and started the walk to Geo's place. Here are the boys at the top of the stairs figuring out what to do to get down:
Love that fountain there...the parc had a chateau and fountains and was really gorgeous. A place you wouldn't normally go to but we are so glad they live near there so we can see it and them!
Here's Chady playing airplane in the big open field on the way home. It's probably the only open field in all of Paris and its surrounding suburbs: And Michael laughing at Chady trying to hide behind a tree:
We went back to their place for a delicious lunch of pizza!!! And good stories, great hot beverages, and a rousing game of Operation. That game is MUCH harder than I remember. :)
It was really fun.
Saturday, November 07, 2009
Starting to Say Our Goodbyes
My shopping buddy. I don't have many...but what makes someone my shopping buddy? The ability to spend money...and do it without hesitation. With enthusiasm. And with constant perserverance to find that RIGHT item, even if it means going to the same store in 3-4 different locations.
Su is it. Su and I once went to a huge mall here in Paris. She had her shopping trolley. Me, my suitcase. And we went, filled up our bags and called it a day. DURING a metro strike. Which meant that we both walked 30-40 minutes to get to the ONE metro line that was running (out of 2 automated lines). Shopped all day, came home the same way. Me, carrying a 52" roll of paper that was to be my Thanksgiving tablecloth.
This, is dedication. This is a GOOD shopping buddy!
SO, on one of our last outings, we went from one thing to the next in Paris...like 2 ladies who didn't have husbands and kids waiting at home.
We started by watching 500 Days at a movie theater on the Champs Elysees. Su was mistaken about the time and we showed up 10 minutes late, but only 1 minute before the movie started. So we got to skip the previews.
Then, we wandered over to Angelina's across from the Tuileries and had their famous hot chocoloate and Le Mont Blanc. It was like drinking a melted chocolate bar. And in a gorgeous room.
After which we decided we needed to peruse the English bookstore, WH Smith.
Then, Brian suggested we go out to dinner (Gotta love my husband!). So we went over to Mirama's for some great Chinese food.
And then I hugged my friend goodbye. And since she works, has 2 primary school aged kids, etc...it's hard for us to find time to see each other. So it really is goodbye.
So I made sure it was a GOOD hug.